
Cohabitation law & TOLATA — what to do when your ex makes a claim on your jointly owned property
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Our solicitors help unmarried cohabitees and homeowners to draft effective cohabitation agreements that protect your rights in the event of a break-up.
Talk to usCohabiting families are the fastest growing family type in England and Wales. Yet many people don’t realise that there’s little legal protection available for cohabitees in the event of a relationship breakdown.
If you’re not married but moving in with a partner or buying a property, you should consider entering into a cohabitation agreement to protect your rights and interests. There’s a common myth that cohabitation with your partner constitutes a common law marriage that provides the same financial rights as a married couple if you end up separating. This is not true — and if your relationship does end, your financial security may be at risk.
A legal document for unmarried couples who live together, a cohabitation agreement sets out arrangements for property, finances, children and other assets in the event that you separate or one of you passes away. This provides clarity and security by ensuring that both parties are aware of where they stand in the event of a future relationship breakdown. They also offer the flexibility and freedom to organise your financial affairs according to your wishes.
This area of law is highly fact-specific and nothing is guaranteed. Couples often don’t understand their rights and disputes of this nature can lead to litigation. That’s why our expert family law solicitors are here to help cohabitees navigate this complex area of law. Our award-winning team is recognised by The Times Best Law Firms, which recognises "the best lawyers for business, public and private-client law… in England and Wales... all chosen by lawyers".
We can protect your rights as a cohabitee and homeowner so that you can plan for the future, whatever happens. We can also advise you of your rights and claims as a non-owning cohabitee, especially in the event that you have children from that relationship.
Any couple (including unmarried heterosexual and same-sex couples) can make a cohabitation agreement. Since cohabitation agreements can have important consequences, it’s critical to take legal advice during their preparation.
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A cohabitation agreement records a cohabiting couple's intentions and how they wish for any property to be divided in the event of separation. It can also record more basic issues such as how any property they're living in will be run, including who'll be responsible for which outgoings.
A cohabitation agreement can cover a variety of different issues, from how a property will be held to how the parties’ finances will be operated during their cohabitation.
The most common areas include:
Cohabitation agreements can be entered into by any cohabiting couple. The most common scenario is when a couple begins cohabiting or purchasing a property.
A cohabitation agreement can make family life easier, giving all parties the flexibility and freedom to organise their financial affairs as they wish.
A well-drafted agreement sets out and evidences beneficial interests in co-owned property and ultimately protects that interest (for example, if one party’s family has gifted money towards the deposit).
Cohabitation agreements can facilitate quick resolutions to financial matters in cases where there's an acrimonious separation, providing clarity on what each party is entitled to and in what proportion. This can also avoid the potential costs of litigation, as many of the technical issues relating to the separation and the mechanics of valuing and dividing property will have already been agreed.
Some people are cautious of broaching the topic of entering into a cohabitation agreement with their partner as the suggestion may be interpreted as a lack of commitment to the relationship. Without careful consideration and management, this can carry the risk of relationship breakdown.
Cost is also a factor to consider when deciding whether to proceed with a cohabitation agreement — particularly if the parties’ circumstances and the terms proposed are complex. However, it's generally much better to enter into a cohabitation agreement than not.
Our award-winning family law team contains experts in the complex patchwork of law around cohabitants' rights.
This includes Hannah Saxe, a Resolution Accredited Specialist in relation to private child law and the law relating to cohabiting couples. She has specialist expertise in advising cohabiting couples on relationship breakdown, resolving issues relating to property and securing financial provisions for children. Hannah also sits on Resolution’s National Cohabitation Committee and was elected onto the National Committee in 2022 and has been recognised as a Leading Associate by The Legal 500.
We’ve developed a highly successful track record in safeguarding the interests of cohabitees — even in the most difficult circumstances.
It’s possible to make financial claims even if your home is owned in your partner’s name. Such claims can be substantial if there are dependent children involved.
Our warm and welcoming offices in Manchester, Liverpool, Leeds and Lancashire provide comfortable settings for sensitive discussions.
This area of law straddles both family and civil litigation rules. We're well-versed in this dual approach and the complex cost rules and can guide and support you through the dispute resolution process.
Our lawyers provide clear and transparent advice to cohabiting couples when they need it most.
While a cohabitation agreement is a legally binding document, The Law Commission has expressed reservations about enforcement.
Cohabitation agreements are governed by ordinary rules of contract and can therefore be challenged on any of the following ordinary contractual principles:
The key, however, is to remember that if a cohabitation agreement is entered into free of any of the above principles — and if both parties have obtained independent legal advice — the Court is more likely to uphold and enforce it.
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